Kenda Marie Bates, 58, of Delmar passed away peacefully at her home on Sunday, July 16, 2023. Kenda was born in Japan on September 21, 1964 to Laurence O. Bates, Sr. of Maine and the late Judith Ann Giles. Through the years, Kenda worked as a secretary at a law office, attended college for nursing, and did some modeling as a little girl. She is survived by her father and step-mother, Laurence O. Bates, Sr. and Beverly; sons, Joseph Owen Ellis and BJ; daughter, Crystal; grandchildren, Lacey Ellis, Jade Ellis, Hunter Luther, Levi Timmons, Austin Timmons, and River Timmons; brothers, Laurence O. Bates, Jr. and William Giles Bates; special friends, Daddy Buck Timmons and Debbie Timmons who was like a daughter to her. A visitation for family and friends will be held from 10 to 11:00 am on Monday, July 24, 2023 at Short Funeral Home in Delmar. A graveside service will follow at 11:30 am at Odd Fellows Cemetery in Laurel. Arrangements are in the care of Short Funeral Home in Delmar. Online condolences may be sent to the family by visiting www.shortfh.com.